Wang Leehom’s Wife Says The Singer Has Many Sex Partners And Hires Prostitutes In Damning Weibo Post

"You know very clearly that the biggest dream I had growing up was to have a happy family and for my children to grow up in a complete, loving environment. However, I have no regrets because my three kids are my everything and are God’s biggest gift.”

Jinglei added that she has been “suspected, shamed and emotionally abused” by Leehom's family over the years, and that she was “forced to sign an unfair pre-nuptial agreement”.

Although she “fully understands” why he wanted to protect the assets that he had before they got married, she reasoned, “What we acquired after getting married was from both of our efforts.”

“The house is under your name, our car is under your mum’s name. You transferred everything away because you were so afraid that I’d ‘profit’ from you somehow. Of course, you always provided enough for our kids, but I’ve never used your money to buy any luxury items over the years and have led a simple life.”

“Right now, the person who has all your money but refuses to let you use it isn’t me,” Jinglei stated. “I know that saying this will make you angry but I sincerely hope that you can open your eyes and realise what’s going on. I know that you were once so depressed that you laid on the floor not being able to move for a few days, and that you lost a lot of things that are important to you."

"You were frustrated that you were unable to make decisions for yourself, do what you wanted to do or handle your job, relationships and finances at the age of 37. You asked me for help and I reached out to you because I wanted to save the person that I loved. I only realised later on that I was just one of your chess pieces and that you made use of my compassion and love for you to get back the rights that you wanted. In the process, you played good cop and I was the bad cop. Getting these rights back didn’t benefit me and the only one who did [benefit] was you.”

What truly disappointed and probably angered Jinglei was how Leehom told her that he would protect her when the divorce made the news. However, she says he only looked after his own interests when unflattering speculations about the marriage surfaced.

“The person who did wrong was you, but it was me and your mother who bore the brunt of the comments and negative press while you stayed in the clear,” she wrote. “I asked you to clarify things because what was being written about me was not true, but you said that you couldn’t as you had announced that you would no longer comment on [the divorce]."

"I told you that I understood your stance, but after an hour, I saw reports claiming that you cheated and you immediately stood up for yourself. It turns out that the ‘us’ that you [said you would defend] was only ‘you’. You said that your reputation is precious, but have you ever thought about how precious a woman’s reputation is? I still have years ahead of me."

"You relied on the fact that I’ve always protected you the most fiercely and have never said anything bad about you. I’ve never even said much in front of our family and good friends, but you didn’t hesitate to slander me in order to protect your 'excellent' reputation (…) That’s because you would be unable to maintain your 'excellent' reputation if the blame wasn’t on me [and if the divorce was] because of your irresponsibility.”

Jinglei also went into detail about how her relationship with Leehom started, his sordid personal life as well as the many affairs he's had over the years.

“The relationships between men and women in showbiz, along with your values have truly subverted what I know about life. [In showbiz] Partners, former partners and good friends all fall under the term “good friends”,” she wrote. “I got to know you when I was 16, and looking back at the almost 20 years, everything becomes clear. I was still a minor and you were 26 when you asked for my number. You said I was pretty and flirted with me, and we would chat for at least an hour on the phone whenever you called."

“Later on, you and I travelled a lot and would meet up once in a while when we were in the same city. I remember you asked me out for a movie and we were sitting in front, and I realised after the movie ended that your rumoured girlfriend was sitting right at the back of the theatre."

"There was a time you called me at 2.30am when you were still with your ex and asked me if I wanted to accompany you to bed… I thought it was weird and rejected you, but I didn’t think too much into it. You said that you’d come meet me instead, so we met outside and chatted until morning. I only found out later that you were still attached. When you broke up with her, we met up and you paid close attention to me. You carried my bag, went out with me and we had a good time together. You held my hand and I wasn’t wary at all because you were [known to be] an exemplary idol."

"We had sex but the next morning, you told me that you didn’t want to talk about relationships. I was shocked because I had never encountered something like this before. You sincerely told me about your secrets and how lonely you were, and I felt that you, being such an exemplary idol, became like this because someone had hurt you. So we acted like a couple and spent time together whenever we could, contacted each other if we weren’t in the same city, and had a lot of good times together. We’d even say ‘I love you’, but we weren’t officially together. You said that you wouldn’t date anyone else, but that you didn’t want to be in a relationship for the time being.”

Jinglei would later find out that Leehom had many “friends” like her in different cities.

“You were photographed bringing girls home for the night and soliciting prostitutes, in fact, there was unequivocal footage of all this," she wrote. “The women were all able to pinpoint which floor and which unit you lived in, and would be able to turn left from the elevator to get to your place. You admitted all this to me and said that your problem was that you were unable to control yourself. I suggested that we break up, and you spent weeks leaving voice messages saying that you wouldn’t do it again, and that I’d be your ‘One and Only’.”

While Jinglei was getting ready to settle down with Leehom, there came a night when he didn’t call her after his Shanghai concert, and he remained uncontactable even in the morning.

She later found out that he had drank the night away with one of his sex partners, and that he had taken lots of photos. Those photos, according to Jinglei, showed Leehom's sex partner's "breasts pressed" against him as well as them kissing.

Jinglei said Leehom stayed in contact with the woman even after marriage despite promising her that he wouldn’t do so. The woman also sent him nudes on his birthday, and he "happily responded". They continued exchanging "flirty messages" and the woman even called Leehom 'Hom Hom' in an Instagram post before deleting it.

Jinglei also revealed that another one of Leehom's sex partners is a married woman with kids of her own and he and the woman would work together to lie to her husband.

"The sexual history between the two of you made me feel uncomfortable because even after we got married, she would still flirt with you and try to seduce you and you would always respond enthusiastically," wrote Jinglei. "I said I could accept it if it happened in a social environment, but not when you invited her to our house."

Jinglei said Leehom flew into a rage when she told him that and retorted that they shouldn’t have Christmas parties in the future if that was what she wanted.

When Jinglei was pregnant, Leehom’s dance instructor sent him a message saying that he was upset because he thought that they were together.

Another ‘friend’ of Leehom’s cried for an hour in Jinglei’s presence because she also thought she was in a relationship with the singer.

“I later found a record you kept describing the characteristics of the prostitutes you solicited and some resembled the female staff around us (…) After going through all of this, I still chose to forgive you and be with you. I no longer hoped to change you, and let you live the kind of life that you want."

"I stepped away from your life and waited for you at home with our kids, and waited for you to come home to us when you wanted. I also stopped arguing with you, but you still decided to leave because of your own selfishness. Your reason [for wanting a divorce] is that you’re worried that you would meet a girl that you like and you didn't want her to be called a home wrecker. I refused to divorce, and you got worse and tried all means and ways to bully me with your words, shame me, even spinning lies to ruin me in front of our loved ones.”

As their marriage crumbled, Jinglei also saw her children’s unhappiness grow. “All I wanted was for our family to be harmonious and for our kids to grow up in a happy environment,” she wrote.

“What I got in exchange was your absence. You weren’t there on our kids’ birthdays or on important holidays. Every time you left, you wouldn’t come back for months. My heart broke when I saw the kids crying in my arms because their hearts were broken. I realised that what I was doing was a bad example to our daughters… I thought I was giving our children happiness, but I was making them suffer through gains and losses… and disappointments time and time again."

"You will always make time for things that matter. As they say, those absent will always have an excuse. Love has to be expressed with actions. You said you loved me, and now you say you love our children. I heard what you said, but I didn’t see you express your love. Love should be expressed by what you do, and not just by what you say.”

Jinglei explained that she wrote her post because she doesn’t want any other woman to go through what she did, and that she doesn’t want public opinion to be so easily manipulated.

She also declared that she will “bring up the kids based on [her] own ability”, and that she would not take any money from Leehom as she does not want to be shamed in any way.

"Even though [the money] is rightfully mine, but there's no need for that, thanks," she wrote.

Jinglei said that Leehom had asked her "not to destroy [his] showbiz career".

"I want to say that I’ve never wanted to do so, which is why I held it in until now," she wrote. "Having to do this hurts my heart too, but if your showbiz career gets affected, it’s because of the many choices that you made; not me."

"I hope that the both of us can start anew and be at peace. That you will be able to change the unhealthy habits of your mind and body and focus on your music. All your partners won’t be able to give you true happiness. They’re only leading you to a bottomless abyss… I hope that you can be truthful to yourself, not pay attention to how the world views you, and be with the right person."

She continued: "From today I will improve myself and start anew. I will be the strongest support and best example for the kids. I’ll let them know that it’s possible for you to climb back up based on your own strength even if you fall to your lowest (…) Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it."

Jinglei ended her post by thanking everyone who spent time to read what she wrote.

"I hope that my words have given your life a little bit of inspiration and meaning. Perhaps this is why I went through all of this.”

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