"You know very clearly that the biggest dream I had growing up was to have a happy family and for my children to grow up in a complete, loving environment. However, I have no regrets because my three kids are my everything and are God’s biggest gift.”
Jinglei added that she has been “suspected, shamed and emotionally abused” by Leehom's family over the years, and that she was “forced to sign an unfair pre-nuptial agreement”.
Although she “fully understands” why he wanted to protect the assets that he had before they got married, she reasoned, “What we acquired after getting married was from both of our efforts.”
“The house is under your name, our car is under your mum’s name. You transferred everything away because you were so afraid that I’d ‘profit’ from you somehow. Of course, you always provided enough for our kids, but I’ve never used your money to buy any luxury items over the years and have led a simple life.”
“Right now, the person who has all your money but refuses to let you use it isn’t me,” Jinglei stated. “I know that saying this will make you angry but I sincerely hope that you can open your eyes and realise what’s going on. I know that you were once so depressed that you laid on the floor not being able to move for a few days, and that you lost a lot of things that are important to you."
"You were frustrated that you were unable to make decisions for yourself, do what you wanted to do or handle your job, relationships and finances at the age of 37. You asked me for help and I reached out to you because I wanted to save the person that I loved. I only realised later on that I was just one of your chess pieces and that you made use of my compassion and love for you to get back the rights that you wanted. In the process, you played good cop and I was the bad cop. Getting these rights back didn’t benefit me and the only one who did [benefit] was you.”
What truly disappointed and probably angered Jinglei was how Leehom told her that he would protect her when the divorce made the news. However, she says he only looked after his own interests when unflattering speculations about the marriage surfaced.
“The person who did wrong was you, but it was me and your mother who bore the brunt of the comments and negative press while you stayed in the clear,” she wrote. “I asked you to clarify things because what was being written about me was not true, but you said that you couldn’t as you had announced that you would no longer comment on [the divorce]."
"I told you that I understood your stance, but after an hour, I saw reports claiming that you cheated and you immediately stood up for yourself. It turns out that the ‘us’ that you [said you would defend] was only ‘you’. You said that your reputation is precious, but have you ever thought about how precious a woman’s reputation is? I still have years ahead of me."
"You relied on the fact that I’ve always protected you the most fiercely and have never said anything bad about you. I’ve never even said much in front of our family and good friends, but you didn’t hesitate to slander me in order to protect your 'excellent' reputation (…) That’s because you would be unable to maintain your 'excellent' reputation if the blame wasn’t on me [and if the divorce was] because of your irresponsibility.”